They want me to have two pave setting bands, one on each side of my engagement ring. Should we do something in the ceremony, such as put the first ring on, then the engagement ring and then the other band.. Or just do one band and put the other rings on before the reception? I'm very confused… Although I love his idea of having a band on both sides.
Stanleys- A wedding is not a BRIDE'S DAY! It is about two people coming together as a family.
Also, sorry if I did not make this clear, I LOVE THE IDEA OF THE TWO BANDS. And I absolutely love my future step mother in law, she has been helping us tremendously and has great ideas.
The only thing I am confused about is whether to incorporate both rings into the ceremony. We are definately getting two bands though.
i have one band on each side of my engagement ring, too! for me, it's because i couldn't stand the assymetric look of only one wedding band. we didn't do anything special about the second band. i wore my engagement ring on my left hand and the "extra" band on my right. during the ceremony, my hubby put just the one band that he was holding onto my engagement hand and that's it. after the ceremony i slipped the engagement ring and band off and put the "extra" one on so i had one on each side. this way, the pics we took before the ceremony didn't show me as already wearing a band, which could be confusing to anybody who looks at the pics.