My wife and I got married 2yr a go she is 22 I’m 31. Anyhow, we didn’t have wedding than and we decided to have a formal wedding now and renew our vows. Anyhow, I just wanted to be something really small just family like 20people. But my wife wants to have the maid of honor and have the reception in Hampton Inn, buy tones of flowers and invite about 50people. She got a good job just a few mo a go and technically she is pay for the wedding, but is our money since we already married. She wants to spend 000 I want spend half of that if that. Also, she wants to buy new wedding Ring and spend 5K on it, and she wants to go to Jamica and spend about 6K on it. She gets paid 80K a yr i get paid 35K yr.